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Leadership

Shell Shocked: Part 1

  • eodera
  • March 5, 2021
  • #development, #femalecoach, #lessons, #resilience, #tennisskills, leadership

The Making of a Leader

By liz odera

Dominique was very excited that first afternoon, as she signed in and went on to the locker room to prepare for her first tennis session at her new job. Dominique noticed that there was only one other female coach listed on the club noticeboard amongst the 14 coaches at the club. She had arrived early and had the advantage to watching everyone at work, from the clients at different ages and levels of play, and met the other coaches as they confidently carried on with their instructions. She was introduced to some of them by the Head Professional as they left the court, and they seemed pleasant enough. but she felt ready, to take on her role as a professionally certified coach, and confidently stepped onto the court, together with two male coaches to run a session for Academy 1 players. These were 12 intermediate level kids of 7-10 years old, who had grown through the club system. Immediately after the warm ups, James, the lead coach, separated the children into groups under each coach, and the pre-planned programming began.

Dominique was accused of insubordination….

The instructions were explicit, requiring the coaches to work on preparing the players for Team Tennis that would begin in two weeks. Dominique quickly noticed that the interest of the children often flagged during session, unless there was a fun game session on, which included “King of the Court” and other little fun court activities. Dominique’s group of 4 kids, Daniel, Josephine, Allya and Habib, were of varying abilities: though they all agreed to play tournaments, they were unable to keep scores consistently, and could not hold a rally count of more than 6 from the baseline.  In addition, only one child, Daniel had a consistent overhead serve, while the other three could barely toss the ball. Puzzled, she looked across at the other courts and noticed that the adjacent court had definitely stronger players, while the far court had players of mixed ability like hers, and quickly realized that this was going to be her first test as a coach at the club.

Dominique noticed that they were all using green balls, and quickly reached out for a basket of orange balls and used them for the remaining part of the session. She also made adjustments to the session plan as she went along, to cater for the level of the majority of the children, making sure that they had fun and they worked. By the end of the session, all the kids were smiling, and, as she escorted them from the court, she met their parents briefly and introduced herself, giving a word of encouragement, and, when they were leaving, a couple of parents smiled and waved at her.

That evening, she got a call from the Head Pro, requesting that she attend a meeting at the club, at 9.00 a.m. the next morning. He would not say what it was about, but asked that she keep time, as the day’s schedule would be quite busy. Dominique arrived a few minutes early, and was shown into the Head Pro’s office, where she found James also seated. She smiled at said a polite “hallo”, but James ignored her, staring at an object at the end of the room.

The next 20 minutes was a really big shock for Dominique. She was accused of being insubordinate by not following the instructions for the tennis session as planned, and was expected to immediately apologize. She was expected, in future, to ask permission before making any adjustments. Dominique tried to explain her reasons, but the meeting was cut short because the Head Pro had a management meeting scheduled.

Dominique left the office that day shell shocked, and continued the rest of that month, following every session plan as written to minute detail, even when she knew that there were areas that did not work. She felt frustrated, but didn’t want to lose her job: she had just received her first pay-check and the money was good. However, she was very unhappy and felt that perhaps it was time to take some action.

What do you think went wrong and how would you advise Dominique?

(photo by pexels-philip-justin-mamelic-4469778)

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Paying It Forward

  • eodera
  • October 13, 2022
  • #lifecoach, #pmp #lizodera1, #sadilioval, #strategic, #tennis, leadership

“I just want to learn“

Meet Adongo – a young Sadili Changemaker

I first met Adongo, then only just 18 years old, during a Girl PowerCubs Camp which was held at our facility in Nairobi, Kenya. Adongo, an extremely talented footballer, who was unable to complete school, and had been sneaked into the program by the football coach from the village her village in Uholo Location, to the west of Kenya (more than 7 hours from Nairobi City). We found out from her coach that Adongo was an orphan. When the teams returned, Adongo never left with them, and instead was hosted by one of our project staff in what I believed was a short break.

As a community sports club, we often had most of our clients coming during the weekends. A large majority of our clients are people who work, and their children attend school, during the week. We therefore had our largest groups on weekends. Sadili Oval, as a social enterprise, thrives through the weekend patrons who pay to train, attend tournaments or use the facilities for events. Some funds would then be used to run life skills and sports training for children in nearby Kibra. Adongo would come in to provide support during these activities, and sometimes join in as an excited learner. Adongo adopted us and never left!

Recognising Value

Adongo at a life skills training session in Kibra

After about 4 months, Adongo started to show real interest in the other daily activities at the club, and she would volunteer where help was required. We began to realise that we had a “happy helper’ amongst us! She supported the training of gym members coming during evening classes, cleaning and mopping up where necessary. She also showed a lot of interest in the swimming pool, and persuaded one of our instructors to teach her to swim and learn to maintain the pool during the less busy hours, in exchange for her help when the pool was busy. I included her during my tennis lessons, and she was mentored in basketball by Sadili’s Kenyan national player, Zack Okong’o Basil. Everyone found her a very likeable and useful young person.

One time I asked “ Adongo, I’m curious, why is it that you are always here?” And she answered, “I only want to learn, and I’ve found an opportunity to do it here.” I found that a really interesting answer.

Our background checks showed that Adongo came from an extremely poor background, and if it wasn’t for the opportunity she had to come and work with us, she would suffer greatly. We arranged to give her some work on part time basis during the week, whenever possible, and provided her with a small allowance.  Within two years, Adongo was able to improve her writing and English language skills, get herself certified as a gym and tennis instructor, through our training programs, and she grew into a very confident young lady. Today she manages the swimming pool and runs beginner tennis lessons. She continues to mentor children in Kibra, where she is very popular. She is also sending money back home to care for her siblings and ensure that they get an education.

Adongo’s willingness to learn, combined with her commitment to duty, has made her successful. Learning sometimes is not about going into a college or classroom setting. A lot of times, it is just about being aware of what is happening around you, learning from it, and using that to improve yourself. Adongo is ready to pay it forward…

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Dexterity and Agility begins early

  • eodera
  • September 27, 2022
  • #coach, #development #sporteanddev, #girlpower, #lizodera1, #sadilioval, agility, dexterity, leadership, skills

I grew up in Kisumu, a small city near Lake Victoria. The hot climate provided ample opportunity for me to play outside all day, and I was introduced to local African games like “Bladda” and “Pacho”. “Bladda” is a Kenyan game in which individuals or teams compete in creating patterns using rubber lengths from inner tubing (bladder) often recycled from old car or bicycle tires, trimmed into thin strips and tied together.

Bladda

This game, more popular amongst young girls, requires a lot dexterity, ability at high jump and precision. Pacho” is a series of obstacles that individual players must pass through in order to get “home” or “pacho”. It is often played in teams. The word “Pacho” means a traditional home amongst the Luo ethnic group. The obstacles are created by the children and can change with prevailing individual creativity. When I was 9 years old, my family moved to a middle-class estate in Langata suburbs of Nairobi, Kenya’s capital city. I felt isolated: homes were separated by fences, neighbors barely talked to one another, and children were often forbidden to step out of their compounds. I did, however, make friends with other children, whenever I went out to the local shopping center on an errand, and we secretly organized competitions for “Bladda”. I was rarely missed, I think, because my parents believed that I had the skills to take care of myself, which I learned from interacting with other children.

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2 Reasons Why Listening Is An Important Skill When Coaching Females

  • eodera
  • January 10, 2022
  • #coachingfemales, #coachskills, #lifecoach, #pmp #lizodera1, leadership

Listening is key to improving the performance of every female athlete.

Coaching females is an art and a science

Coaches demonstrate, observe and correct. Many coaches do this quite well, but miss a very important opportunity to impact positively on a female athlete’s life. When a female athlete walks into a session, she is keen to connect with the coach, in order to perform at her best. As coaches, we find ourselves pushing forward with the session, demonstrating and talking (a lot), as we observe and correct. How much time do we spend actually listening? From talking to many coaches, it ranges from 0-2% normally.

When you listen, you learn

At the start of every session, and during the short breaks, I often take time to give each of my players a chance to talk to me. It’s often me asking only one or two questions, and leaving her to then choose what she wishes to tell me. It’s the one time I call “free choice”. It’s amazing how much you can learn about someone in such a short time. It helps you understand her, and feed in subtle but gradual adjustments to the learning session that will give her a satisfactory learning opportunity.

When you listen, you act

Listening helps you understand what the underlying issue is. Does your athlete really understand what is required, or perhaps she knows another way to do the same thing? Could this, perhaps be easily built around her to ensure that she has, not just the important basics, but also uniquely different style, that helps build her confidence? Allowing for creativity helps build self esteem, and accommodating for this while offering critical techniques is always a win-win. 

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There is Every Reason To Hire A Female Coach

  • eodera
  • June 8, 2021
  • business sense, female coach, leadership

Female Coaches As Protectors

Sports can bring male and female athletes and coaches together in very intimate ways, and without proper rules and policies adhered to, will often lead to acts that can become harmful. Although many colleges and associations have policies regarding the education and protection of athletes from sexual harassment, very little is actually done when cases come up. Often, when a report comes in, instead of taking action immediately to protect the victim, she is treated like a pariah, and the institution closes up to protect their reputation. A large majority of cases reported are linked to male coaches at every level, from junior tennis, through the highly competitive college and professional version.

Unfortunately, unable to find “concrete evidence” in many cases, those in authority seek and way to relieve the accused perpetrator from his position quietly, thereby allowing him to continue to potentially offend in other institutions.

Female Coaches Can Work With Both Male and Female Players

Many young tennis players, both boys and girls, have only had male coaches throughout much of their growth in the game, and this, coupled with the fact that a large majority of female coaches are found at the formative stages of the game, lends the mistaken belief that female coaches cannot coach at a higher level. It is no wonder that Amelie Mauresmo caused much surprise globally when she successfully coached Andy Murray in 2014. And she is not alone, though few, other female coaches continue to prove their ability to handle both men and women’s teams in academies, high schools, and clubs. It is time to increase the number of female coaches working in both boys and girls’ teams. Female coaches bring different life skills, attitude, outlook and competitiveness to the workforce that is essential to coaching.

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Is It Time, Female Tennis Coaches?

  • eodera
  • June 3, 2021
  • #coaching tennis, #femalecoach, #tennis, #usatennis, #usta, tennispro

Of the more than 21 million tennis players in 2020 in US, about 3 million were first-time players, a 44% increase over new players in 2019. In addition, the 3.82 million Americans returned to the sport after time away, a 40% increase over 2019. This offers a lucrative opportunity for female coaches to take up more positions at every level. What would be the benefits of having female coaches as leaders in tennis?

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5 Ways To Keep Your Passion Alive

  • eodera
  • May 4, 2021
  • #lifecoach, leadership, passion, productivity, self development, selfcare

Maintaining your passion can be a FRAGILE process when you start.

Do not run before you can walk.

What do most babies do? They start by crawling, then the totter as they take their first step, and then, the finally start to walk once they have balance.

Ask yourself: “How Can I Keep My passion Alive, especially during these troubled times?”

Here are 5 Ways To Keep Your Passion Alive

  1. START WHERE YOU ARE WITH THE TOOLS THAT YOU HAVE – Are There People Around you Who Would Appreciate What You Do? What about shops? How about social media? Thank you Milly Owesi, for sharing your thoughts about using social media! This way you will reach a lot more people.

2. LEAN EXISTENCE – GET RID OF WHAT YOU DO NOT NEED

Ladies have lots of shoes, clothes, that don’t fit you. Men have t-shirts, first suit they ever wore to work, knick knacks from some games, or that briefcase that you don’t use anyway.

And then there are those who have the old TV/radio that was overtaken by time; that old computer, which you keep hoping your son or daughter will use, then, as it turns out, it becomes obsolete with the arrival of the smart phone.

Divide them into what you will give away, what you can sell to raise some money towards your kitty, and what you can really keep to wear.

3. WORK ON SOMETHING ELSE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT

Remember Mary from our last session? Mary worked part time at a local store and earned enough to buy her paint and brushes materials for her art.

She also contacted local printers and asked for their off-cuts from other jobs to use for her cards.

4. USE WHAT YOU HAVE

My sister Becky loves to bake, and she makes the most amazing cakes. Our family and friends are always looking forward to their birthday cakes: they are so moist and tasty. But Becky only bakes when there is a family occasion, which means that her oven is often under-utilised.

I would estimate that, with her equipment and she would be able to share her amazing gift.

5. LOOK AROUND YOU – AND TAKE THE FIRST STEP, YES, I KNOW IT’S HARD, BUT DO IT. IN A FEW MONTHS, WHEN YOU LOOK BACK, YOU WILL BE AMAZED AND WHAT YOU HAVE ACHIEVED, BECAUSE

YOU ARE LIVING YOUR PASSION!

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How To Keep Your Passion Alive

  • eodera
  • July 28, 2020

Maintaining your passion can be a FRAGILE process when you start.

Do not run before you can walk.

What do most babies do? They start by crawling, then the totter as they take their first step, and then, the finally start to walk once they have balance.

Ask yourself: “How Can I Keep My passion Alive, especially during these troubled times?”

Here are 4 Ways To Keep Your Passion Alive

  1. START WHERE YOU ARE WITH THE TOOLS THAT YOU HAVE – Are there people around you who would appreciate what you do? What about shops? How about social media? This way you will reach a lot more people.
  2. LEAN EXISTENCE – Get rid of what you do not need.

Ladies have lots of shoes, clothes, which often, don’t fit.

Men have t-shirts, first suite they ever wore to work, knick knacks from some games, or that briefcase that is often not used anyway.

And then there are those who have the old TV/radio that was overtaken by time; that old computer, which you keep hoping your son or daughter will use, then, as it turns out, it becomes obsolete with the arrival of the smart phone.

Divide them into what you will give away, what you can sell to raise some money towards your kitty, and what you can really keep to wear.

3. WORK ON SOMETHING ELSE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT

Remember Mary from our last session? Mary worked part time at a local store and earned enough to buy her paint and brushes materials for her art.

She also contacted local printers and asked for their off-cuts from other jobs to use for her cards.

4. USE WHAT YOU KNOW BEST FIRST, AND DON’T BE AFRAID TO START FROM WHERE YOU ARE.

My sister Becky loves to bake, and she makes the most amazing cakes. Our family and friends are always looking forward to their birthday cakes: they are so moist and tasty. But Becky only bakes when there is a family occasion, which means that her oven is often under-utilised.

I would estimate that, with her equipment and she would be able to share her amazing gift.

LOOK AROUND YOU – AND TAKE THE FIRST STEP, YES, I KNOW IT’S HARD, BUT DO IT. IN A FEW MONTHS, WHEN YOU LOOK BACK, YOU WILL BE AMAZED AND WHAT YOU HAVE ACHIEVED, BECAUSE

YOU ARE LIVING YOUR PASSION!

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Success Can Mean Trying Something Different

  • eodera
  • July 14, 2020
  • #coaching tennis, #sadilioval, #tennis, #tennisskills, nike, running, soccer, sport, tennis life, tennis love, tennisplayers, tennispro, usopen

How then, could training running in one direction be the only way to build better play?

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Karen’s Success Story

  • eodera
  • July 7, 2020
  • adding value, attitude, learning, self development, volunteering

The right attitude, willingness to learn and volunteering your time, can open unique opportunities.

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